To learn Slow J - Where U chords, your first step should be understanding these chords - Ebm, Dbm, Ebm, Dbm, Abm, Bb, Dbm, B, Bbm, B and Dbm in sequence. To master the tempo, it's wise to start at 51 BPM before aiming for the song's 104 BPM. Align the capo with your vocal depth and chord choice, bearing in mind the song's original key: Eb Major.